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At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
While explaining her relationship with a guy she is interested in, a reader who recently wrote to me for advice reminded me of the difference between the typical male and female approach to being "friends with benefits": I guess we're friends with benefits because there's no commitment on both parts.
What’s to like about the idea having no-strings sex with someone you like and respect, but don’t necessarily want a future with?
"A word to the wise: If you take the leap, go into it with your eyes wide open," Taylor concludes.
Furthermore, a man will often be willing to engage in a relationship like this with a woman who is below his league, in the same way that many people will have lower standards for the quality of the house they lease, as opposed to the one they eventually buy.
Yes, of course, I know, there are occasional exceptions. Once in a while, a long-term relationship or even a marriage can grow out of something that started as friends-with-benefits.
I also made a conscious choice that it was only purely physical with what happened between us (only twice by the way). I was, however, hoping that we could learn more about each other slowly and establish a good foundation before going to the next level. The simple fact is that men almost never fall in love this way, despite what you saw in the fictional movie (emphasis on fictional), No Strings Attached.
But I liked his company and the flowing conversations we had. The woman quoted above might not have had any illusions about the fact that the relationship was purely sexual, but I suspect she did have some illusions about just how unlikely it was that her love interest would change his perspective on the relationship. It has been my experience - both personal and vicarious - that the vast majority of women view a casual sexual relationship as a potential stepping stone towards a relationship.